Ways to embrace pluralism in your daily connections

Pluralism begins with inclusion—ensuring everyone feels valued and respected. Whether in your neighborhood, at work, or in your social circles, it's vital to actively create spaces where you can connect with people with different backgrounds. As Eboo Patel, Founder and President of Interfaith America, describes, pluralism is like a potluck dinner, where each person brings their unique dish to the table: "What you really want is for someone’s crusty bread recipe from Lithuania to meet someone else’s spicy dip recipe from Lebanon. It creates a creative combination, enriching conversation, and a sense that this community cares for its common space together." By recognizing the value each person brings, you contribute to a more vibrant community.

Engage in conversations with people who have differing perspectives. Embrace the discomfort that might come with challenging conversations and use these moments to learn and build mutual understanding. As Princess of Outlaw Country Reyna Roberts shares, "It starts with respect. Even when I don’t agree with someone’s beliefs or opinions, I approach them from a place of love and understanding." By listening deeply and acknowledging others' experiences, you break down bias, barriers, and foster empathy. 

Live it out:

• In your daily encounters, ask open-ended, genuinely curious questions that encourage others to share their thoughts and experiences.

• When engaging in difficult conversations, actively listen without planning your rebuttal.

Tip: Check yourself in difficult conversations. 

Manu Meel, CEO of Bridge USA, agrees, stating young people especially, have to remember that they are the stewards of this “democratic experiment for the next generation.” He says, “When you're in your dorm room or classroom, feeling uncomfortable because someone is saying something you're not interested in, remember that the courageous thing to do is not to step away but to engage. If they don’t engage, we don’t have a democracy.”

Pluralism thrives when people come together, drawing on their diverse backgrounds to tackle common challenges. Collaboration harnesses the power of collective knowledge, where different perspectives create innovative solutions. Dr. Rachel Kleinfeld emphasizes this, stating, "Some people can work through institutions to pass bipartisan legislation or find policy-based solutions. But something that’s been lost in America is participation in organizations. Joining organizations—something all of us can do—helps rebuild those connections." Whether through volunteer work or community-driven projects, the more we engage in collective action, the more resilient our communities become.

Live it out:

• Collaborate on local initiatives that attract people from diverse backgrounds, such as organizing community clean-ups or social events.

• Participate in group activities where people of all backgrounds can contribute their ideas and skills.

Tip: As you practice pluralism, remember that pluralism requires both inner work and collective actions.

Practicing pluralism, especially when working with people who hold views that are diametrically opposed to your own, can be difficult. Showing up to complex discussions with an open mind requires each of us to check in with ourselves from an honest space. Before tackling a difficult topic, ask yourself if you are ready to receive opposing viewpoints; ask yourself if you are in the right frame of mind to hear things you may not want to hear. The answer may be no, and that’s okay. 

“Whether you're from a marginalized community or traditionally privileged community, you have to do your own work because institutions are made up of people with cultural beliefs and values,” said Founding Director of the Selma Center for Nonviolence, Truth and Reconciliation Anika Jackson, “We cannot have systemic change and transformation if we don't do our personal work. And so every day, we have to dig into the harmful dominant cultural characteristics that block us from being in relationship with others.”

Building pluralism requires empathy and grace, both to others and yourself. As we work on forging connections with others, it is critical that we recognize our vulnerability and needs, our own blind spots and pain points. In doing so, we are able to come to the table with a sense of openness and humility, ready to listen, learn, and grow. This act of self-awareness not only lowers our defenses but also creates space for real engagement and mutual understanding.

Fostering pluralism means taking responsibility for building an equitable society. This goes beyond individual actions and includes a collective responsibility to make our democracy stronger. As Dr. Rachel Kleinfeld suggests, "We are at a similar moment now, where frustration with traditional politics can lead to collaboration among those willing to work together to achieve results." By actively participating in organizations and initiatives that promote justice, we strengthen the fabric of society.

Live it out:

• Volunteer or join local organizations that advocate for justice and equity.

• Be mindful of your actions and their impact on marginalized groups, working toward inclusive solutions.

Tip: Recognize the privilege you bring to conversations, especially when dealing with pluralistic issues that have a complicated legacy.

Pluralism calls on you to engage and apply these tools in your community and democracy. Don't let polarization discourage you from interacting with those who hold different views. As Manu Meel points out, "We need to realize that by creating spaces for dialogue, we’re building a counterculture." Engaging with diverse perspectives not only strengthens democracy but also nurtures hope and resilience. By actively participating, we ensure that the ideals of pluralism remain. It's in the music and culture we embrace each day.

Live it out:

• Enjoy movies, music, and media with diverse perspectives.

• Attend town halls, community meetings, or debates to hear diverse viewpoints and contribute your voice.

• Vote and advocate for policies that embrace diversity and promote social equity.

Tip:  Make pluralism a daily practice by seeking out diverse voices and perspectives in what you read, watch, and listen to.